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You and your lover are at your wits end with your marriage. Do you want to make the bonds far stronger? Here’s something that may pique your interest on how you can fix your marriage or make your relationship stronger than steel. It may or may not be for you, but hey, it’s only a couple of minutes long.

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Ladies, this top dating joke is just that, a joke, don’t take it to heart. Men, this top dating joke is just that, a joke. The point I’m trying to make here is that men are wired for visual stimulus whether women like it or not, but that there is something that women can do about it.

Top Dating Joke For Men and Women

A man wanted to get married.
He was having trouble choosing
among three likely candidates.
He gives each woman a present of $5,000
and watches to see what they do
with the money.

The first does a total make-over.
She goes to a fancy beauty salon,
gets her hair done, new make-up
and buys several new outfits,
then dresses up very nicely for the man.
She tells him that she has done this
to be more attractive for him
because she loves him so much.

The man was impressed.

The second goes shopping to buy the man gifts.
She gets him a new set of golf clubs, some new gizmos for his computer, and some expensive clothes.
As she presents these gifts, she tells him that she has
spent all the money on him because she loves him
so much.

Again, the man is impressed.

The third invests the money in the
stock market.
She’s crafty and earns several times the
$5,000.
She gives him back his $5,000
and reinvests the remainder
in a joint account.
She tells him that she wants to save
for their future because she loves him
so much.

Obviously, the man was impressed.

The man thought for a long time about what each woman had done with the money he’d given her.

Then he married the one with the biggest boobs.

So LoveJots’ moral of the top dating joke:

Women, feel good about yourself no matter the size of your boobs or how much money is in your bank account. Bestow upon your man (or the man you are searching for) with your finest inner qualities. Why? Well, in the end,…

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Forever there has been the battle of love vs. hate. That in itself is a battle within our own minds process. Why do we choose to hate instead of exercising love in moments of hurt? What is hate and why do we exercise it?

Here’s the Webster’s New Dictionary definition:

Hate: vt to dislike intensely; to wish to avoid. - vi to feel hatred. - n a strong feeling of dislike or ill will; the person or thing hated. - adj hate’ful, deserving hate.

To oppose what I write about, that being love, what is love etc., someone noted it’d be interesting to post about how I would define hate. Well, I’d like to hear it from all of you. Can you tell me what is hate?

I sit here in a quandary because if I try to rationalize that love “can be defined” in one word, that being: “emotion,” well so can therefore be hate. So much for being a minimalist.

Since we put so much thought and energy into philosophizing love, let’s try the opposite.
Is it possible that once we all can define our hate to people or things, could we wipe out hatred and love them instead? Kind of reminds me of John Lennon and his mission to spread love everywhere, always.

What if we all wiped our slates clean of hatred? What if we could no longer remind ourselves of (or forgive) others wrong doings and move forward? Man has been at war since the beginning of time. Can you imagine if all minds and hearts were cleared and no longer clouded with hatred what this world would be like? Eureka!

If we are so trapped with the feeling of hate in our minds and hearts, is it not us that become the real victim? Why don’t we believe that if we act out on hatred that it is not only us as an individual that suffer but our…

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Here is my first attempt at giving a brief overview of tidbits on a cheating partner, cheating spouse, girlfriend or boyfriend. Here’ some things to think about so you can move forward in life.

What will be your decisions on living with your cheating partner or spouse? Maybe these suggestions can shine some light on your situation.

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Hi There! Thanks for visiting LoveJots.

I want to introduce to you my new store: Sentimental Shopping Store

You’ll find a wide variety of romance books and romance movies. I’ve just added sensual perfumes for women and sexy colognes for men under Sensual Aromas.

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Hi Folks - Sometimes, when all seems topsy turvy in the online dating world, read this joke. This top dating joke floored me. I just couldn’t resist publishing it.

“DADDY - HOW WAS I BORN?”

A little boy goes to his father and asks ‘Daddy, how was I born?’

The father answers, ‘Well, son, I guess one day you will need to find out anyway! Your Mom and I first got together in a chat room on Yahoo.

Then I set up a date via e-mail with your Mom and we met at a cyber-cafe. We sneaked into a secluded room, where your mother agreed to a download from my hard drive. As soon as I was ready…

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Counseling tips for couples can sometimes be expensive and very often an “inconvenience.” Couples that require counseling are usually those who are the busiest which can further the “inconveniences.” With these few counselling tips you can be more successful in your love life as well as in your careers.

You are probably seeking counseling tips for couples online because you’re bored, thinking of parting ways, bicker and or feel distant both emotionally and sexually just to name a few reasons.

Before you call it quits, and if you truly love that person, try the 5 Hour Love Lab by Dr. John Gottman. He has thirty years under his belt working with couples trying to restore their love life.

For some, it’s just a start, for others it will prove to fill the missing gaps and get you two back on track to rekindle those warm fuzzy feelings all over again and break down the walls of the communication breakdown syndrome.

Here’s the lowdown of those five crucial hours in jot sized bites:

1) Saying Goodbye: Do this each

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What does Pamela Anderson, LaSenza, lingerie, panties, high heels, checkout boxes and reality TV have in common? Everything according to her.

Well, now even more-so. Pamela Anderson, the hot bod and starlet from Baywatch , the mom and business lady has decided she’s now ready to rendezvous a rival between her and LaSenza.

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Are you starting to feel like your relationship needs a jolt of romantic ideas for couples? Are the huge sparks becoming more like dying embers? As a couple, you and your partner need to constantly find ways to make the most out of your time together. Time, work, stress and many other factors can take a toll on your romance so you have to be vigilant about things. Here are top five romantic ideas for couples - backwards.

Make the House a Home

5. Explore new places” in your house. Try to spice up your bedroom by adding nice furniture, new bedsheets, curtains or even as simple as a soft pillow. Light up candles in the bedroom or place rose petals in the bathtub. Accessories in the house will help create a more romantic environment for the two of you. Romantic ideas for couples doesn’t mean you must spend time outside of your home’s property to make it awesome.

Ask your partner what he or she wants to have in the house. You may also try having a backyard picnic or pitch a tent outside for a romantic evening. Make love in new areas in the house. Make a fire and prepare some chocolate-dipped strawberries. Even try fixing the basement or the attic for a romantic venue then spend some quality time together.

4. Do chores together. Women get really excited and flattered

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If your spouse cheated (not just a boyfriend or girlfriend), would you ever consider the reason good enough as they muddled through voicing their events of their affair with you?

See if these are any good reasons as to why your spouse cheated:

1) They were going through mid-life crisis.
2) They were drunk or buzzed.
3) Someone came on to them in he bar.
4) The secretary pushed for it until they broke down, they were weak.
5) You don’t give me enough sex.

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