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So it’s come to that point that breaking up and moving on is your only solution. I’m going to approach this from a non-married, no children regard.
Your partner has cheated and you’ve discovered this.
You realize it could never be the same and so do they.
Personally, it’s time to move on. There will be someone out there that can respect you and love you for all of your goodness. You will find someone who shares the same values, can communicate and love you with you as you’ve never experienced before. You will heal.

Or the other scenario - you’ve both tried to make the relationship work. You’ve tried talking it out, tried a life coach, a psychiatrist, a psychologist or have simply reached out to others….may it be a man or woman “of cloth” or friends and family.
It’s time to let go and it’s time to start healing but how?
Here is a great article of the 8 emotional stages you need… to go through in order for you to heal:
There are books that can help support you. For example, Deepak Chopra offers some soulful advice and helps you discover how not carry the weight on your shoulders.
Try reading also some material on self help, or pick up some empowerment/motivational books to help you start focusing on you, who you are today and what you want for your future.
Breaking up is never easy for anyone at any stage. You will find however, that when you look back (which is hard at this point to even fathom, believe me - I know) it was a chapter in your life that was necessary. It will be a time of grieving yes, but also breaking up can be a time of growth in more ways than you can imagine.