Scenario: You’ve just seen someone you find attractive and he doesn’t wear a wedding band. What do you do?

How to ask a man out on a date doesn’t have to be so nerve wracking. If you’re into the dating scene right now and looking, this approach won’t harm anyone.

How To Ask A Man Out On A Date (you fill in the blanks):

1) Say “Excuse me, I hope you don’t mind me interrupting your day but I can’t help but notice….…………….” Say something that you observed that you liked such as “you’re reading an article on…..or that is a very cool shirt/hat/tie you are sporting” etc……end with a…

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Want to be a great listener? How do you know if you are a great listener? Read on for some compelling advice so that your second name doesn’t become “repellent.”

Here’s the scenario:
You’re out on a casual date
You’re trying to express something. The person you’re talking to wasn’t engaged in reading the newspaper before you started talking but sure enough though, the person picks up the newspaper and starts “briefing” through it while you’re talking.

Now, put up your hand if you think that the person briefing over the paper is a great listener or a satisfactory listener.

I hope none of you did.

Here’s their excuse:
“What’s wrong with me doing two things at once? I can still read and listen to you at the same time.”

What this person is telling you is either:

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Here’s your scenario - It’s going to be a rainy day and you two are bored of the TV. Well, get ready to turn your day or night into a steamy sexual rendezvous. Enjoy these sexy adult games and just have some fun and play, play, play.

EEnie Meenie Mineee Toe - Who doesn’t love having their body touched!

Have massage lotion sitting in some hot water (not many like cold massage oil/cream), timer, two large towels and some soft music and candles:

Whatever you two enjoy, may it be movies, books, crafts, history etc., you each write out 10 questions for the other on their chosen topic. You may have to do a bit of research, but at the same time, you’re learning about what interests them.

Put on the music, light some candles and let the fun begin. Have the person who’s answering lay on one towel and place the other large towel (or blanket is fine) on top of them.

Ask one question at a time. For every correct answer, they get…

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Not sure of what not to talk about on your first date? Are you a chatter box or are you completely the opposite?
How much conversation is too much compared to how much conversation is not enough?

Here’s the scenario:
It’s your first date. You’re both nervous.
Ladies, if you’re dressed to kill, thoughts of physical attraction may distract him and may make him stumble on his words or become clumsy.
Men, if she’s nervous, she’ll probably talk a lot or she’ll be totally the opposite and be as quiet as a mouse.

There are some simple guidelines to follow. It’s not all that difficult.

Men: try not to…

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Does your partner stare or oogle at others? I’m not talking about those that are being sneaky with pornography, that’s for another day.

Here’s the scenario:
You two have gone out on a dinner date. You look and feel awesome.
Later in the evening a very attractive person sits at the table beside you.
Your partner can’t help but stare at those long tanned legs and busting out breasts or a very sharply dressed to kill, charismatic man.

So how long is too long?
From what I’ve researched, after 3 seconds, it’s considered a stare.
It comes from asking others “How long does it take before you start to feel uncomfortable when someone is looking at you?”

So, what are your thoughts, what are your feelings and what can you do about it if your partner stares for 3 seconds or less?

You may start asking or commenting to yourself questions like:
1) hey, I’m over herrrrrrrre
2) do you mind, you are with me right now
3) what does she have that I don’t
4) he looks awesome and I don’t have his wallet size
5) man, can we leave
6) stop it

So, when you take inventory of what you’re thinking, it will tell you what you need to do to empower yourself.

Are you insecure? Are you obsessed and focused too much on the other person instead of actually being in love with that person? Is it a matter of trust?

Here’s what you can do:

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The scenario : You’re asking yourself “Who did I marry?”

You were dating, fell in love got married and now as time moves on things start to really bug you.

You start rolling your eyes. I’d come into my office in the middle of a segment on our local radio station about there being direct correlation to whether or not a couple will survive if one or both partners roll their eyes often.

If you do it often, take heed to this.
Things are starting to get on your nerves and there are underlying issues that need to be settled.

Quite frequently my husband has this brainy idea that I can read his mind at times. He’ll start telling me something when he’s half way through his thinking process, leaving out details that can really drive someone crazy - so what do I do? Roll my eyes.

Or maybe for you, your spouse spits out the window and of course that never happened when you were dating. What do you do - roll your eyes……….

Of course you might want to bring the issues into the lines of communication because if not, things will either of course not improve and just keep on the same old ways, same old aggravations or you two will start drifting farther apart.

It’s a natural tendency to want

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So it’s come to that point that breaking up and moving on is your only solution. I’m going to approach this from a non-married, no children regard.

Your partner has cheated and you’ve discovered this.
You realize it could never be the same and so do they.
Personally, it’s time to move on. There will be someone out there that can respect you and love you for all of your goodness. You will find someone who shares the same values, can communicate and love you with you as you’ve never experienced before. You will heal.

Or the other scenario - you’ve both tried to make the relationship work. You’ve tried talking it out, tried a life coach, a psychiatrist, a psychologist or have simply reached out to others….may it be a man or woman “of cloth” or friends and family.

It’s time to let go and it’s time to start healing but how?

Here is a great article of the 8 emotional stages you need…

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Here is an incredibly funny parenting tips video I have ever run across. Anita Renfroe acts out a typical day in about three minutes. This video puts it all in perspective. A standing ovation is received and well deserved. Certainly there are some light hearted injections. For example, telling a child “because I said so” usually won’t grant you the results your after.

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Now here is a true love story that displays how when a man is totally in love with a women, he will climb the highest mountain and go to great lengths to show her that she is the closest person to making him feel like he is in heaven.

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Dating on a budget doesn’t mean there’s nothing to do. Dating doesn’t even have to be expensive at all. Many ideas for a romantic evening that don’t involve spending a big amount of money can be thought of. All you need is a bit of creativity and a woman, who if is looking for love, won’t really care how much you do or don’t spend.

Dating on a budget can find you starting the night off with a delightful inexpensive dinner. It can be a small bistro or a Chinese noodle café. As long as the food (and hopefully the service) is good to great, the dining will go off without a hitch

After dinner, you can move on to a nice hotel. Woa there Charlie…not to take advantage of a room, but all “upscale” hotels have an excellent jazz or piano bar. Advise her ahead of time of your intentions so you “don’t get slapped.” ;)

Here is where you can enjoy a drink of wine or a nice port and perhaps a dessert. For this dating on a budget tip, make sure you call them ahead of time and ask them when they have live soloists playing. Make your date for that night. It’s a great spot to converse. Steer clear of overcrowded spots where you can’t converse. That may drain the romance out of your night altogether.

Another cool tip here: ask the hotel reception when you call…

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